Winter
It’s been an adventure packed year and also one of a lot of downtime. I had some fantastic extended sessions, mind-blowing shorties, adventure getaways and very memorable stunts, and last fall-winter I was just so doubly-whooped from pneumonia that it took a long time to get back into things. It’s always a bummer to lose play time to serious illness, and I know many of you have had the same experiences with our fluctuating health and “all the everything” of the current stressors of the world so put things mildly.
Winter Offerings:
Winter Rope Bondage Special (December through March)
Duos are rare this time of year because we are all booked to the gills, out of town or otherwise engaged, and it’s hard to get overlap so please give LOTS of notice for me to line things up with the other artistes you’d like to play with us.
5hr sessions: 2000 + 100 donation to a local food bank until March.
Selling well-worn Black Leather Pumps (Email to swap me for a new pair of my choosing. Local only)
Texting 100/ 30 mins (Book via email, Using Signal)
Main Updates:
Supply Refilling: I’m replenishing my kink travel bags and assorted supplies for shenanigans in other people’s spaces, would love some amazon.ca GCs from my good snoogens to help fund that boost for winter.
ManyVids: shut it down again because of their push towards creators making free SFW content to cover the porn. They also started posting AI crap related to weird empire stuff and hints of imagery related to Canadian hate groups. Many of these third party sites are problematic and we do our best to have our content be available while not working with ‘literal monsters’ taking huge cuts from our work.
FetLife: account re-opened. I had been gone since the last SW cull on there and hadn’t looked back. With Twi tter now feeding posts into AI, I wanted another place to post some of my messier work, but their TOS are still full of hate for RL SWs of all kinds. I’m not planning on investing a lot into it just yet but- because I’ve already been reported - it is me. If we’ve played together before, feel free to message me on there to place yourself, but I’m there for professional networking, not for kinky chats.
Availability: posting general session availability on my Contact Page, updating weekly. I’ll update later December as it falls into place but hopefully it helps some of you find windows for playing!
Wishlist: our postal service hasn’t been working regularly for a while now and things were getting lost and cancelled by the sellers when I tried to go through Throne. I have a temporary photo wishlist to work better with the current state of our postal service. If I’m seeing you soon and you want to bring me a gift I’ll really love, check it out. If you want to sponsor something and send funds separately so I can pick it up, let me know.
I post mostly on my LoyalFans right now, and only occasionally on BSky/ Twitte r. Social media is tricky
Pandemic podcast- was made to create a human connection to me in a time where I couldn’t see any of my snoogens or sluts so ill be revamping that in the new year and changing its format in some ways.
It took so many years to return to some sense of routine and normalcy with the pandemic with someone who is an in-person person, skipping so many meaningful events because they weren’t happening or didn’t allow folks who worked directly with people to attend if-you-know-what-I-mean. Those who know me already know that I spent years diving into experiences, travelling around meeting random and locals, letting them lead me around, playing characters or being myself alllll over the place for years. It was painful to lose even temporarily- as many of you know very well. Most of my professional perving involved a lot of travel and balancing time spent as a ‘master’'/ ‘expert’ in someone’s eyes with dropping myself into environments where I ‘didn’t know shit’ to balance and learn. One of the only places I could really do that during the last number of years was with intense thru-hiking experiences in all seasons, near major cities and I nailed it. One of the new bits of bullshit about internet censorship is what I like to call “the act to keep the c0p$ out” which traditionally was the comedian or orator , non stripper in a burlesque show.
^^ I’ve been sitting on a second ‘distance play’ website for almost a year documenting the number of censorship pivots per month, staying on top of them, deleting and altering content and wondering what it’s worth to share my art beyond the people who I make it with, wondering what to post that isn’t sewing notes into people’s genitals, piss, fisting, face-sitting, suspension from stairs, tentacle medfet etc,-you know, the good stuff. I miss travel, variety and stunts outside my studio, and doing completely filthy things in quaint little cottages. I’ve decided to start utilizing more spaces for playing, and lean back into the types of adventuring I was doing (kink and otherwise) prior to the pandemic that made my life hella rich in experience. To quote Auntie Mame "Life's a banquet, and most suckers are starving to death." This time I’m going to share some of my figurative banquet plate-loading secrets with you, coming soon.
~The Contessa
