Contact Me

Looking forward to hearing from you!!

I've created these helpful contact forms which give me the info I need to kick off negotiating and screening and lay out options for you for certain things as clearly as possible. It can feel like an enormous task to introduce yourself, but please try: no need for deep details but a good basic intro goes a long way.

I know admin + negotiating isn't overly exciting for everyone (and super exciting for others haha) so I do my best to be direct, ask clarification questions to make sure I know what you mean and save fantasy talk (perving, specific details, session layout) for once we get something in the calendar. I am a ravenous, salacious Dominatrix who loves taking bodies into crazy states, and still need the admin + informed consent stuff before breaking out the heavy bondage, fist-dipping in crisco or putting things in your mouth etc.

Dungeon or Distanced Play?

I have two contact forms to lay out the basics for booking for each type of experience, please choose the one that best applies:

* Dungeon Sessions ( RT/ In-Person)

* Distance Play ( Phone, Texting, Online Play)

I respond to emails in between kinky things + offgrid shenanigans- please be patient, some weeks I have fewer windows for emails than others. Remember I offer full + multi-day sessions and occasionally hop in a canoe and have no email access for a few days - it is not personal but literal capacity.

* My preferred honorific is “Contessa”, but you may also address me as Aspasia, Goddess, or Sir before playing: I have never gone by “Mistress”. I definitely play with other titles and role play, just during sessions.