Canadian Pro-Dominatrix in Toronto, Ontario. Experience Facilitator, Creative Fetishist, Controlled Chaos Handler, Hedonist, Escape Artiste, Adventurer, Retired Session Wrestler, Femme Daddy, Salacious Creature, Goddess of Shenanigans. Professional Kinkster since 2005.
Professional Dominatrix FEMDOM “ESCAPE” ARTISTE
I’m known for my multi-sensory scenes, high energy playfulness and sadistic giddiness with a heaping scoop or two of ‘gonzo weirdness’: obscure themes, kinky stunts, surprise props and nerve-wracking resourcefulness. I’ve always been more of an in-person, very active and touchy Domina, layering sensory experiences for individuals and small groups locally and while touring. Online play has always taken second place to being able to reach out and touch, maneuver, use, expose, open, deny, allow, oversensitive etc a willing and active participant.
I’m working on ways to connect (with physical distance) with more folks who would like to “serve” me at some point, discussing “fantasies for the future” and add more online ways to connect (live and digital content). I can’t say with certainty when I’ll return to x, y, z activities in-person, but I will say I hope to get back to playing with multiple people again at some point.
Nov. 2020: The pandemic has changed how I play right now and threw a massive wrench in my plan to tour and camp all summer and be very touristy in a few Canadian cities. I ended up off-grid for most of July/August learning some new skills then came back to Toronto mid-fall. It was indeed a struggle to adapt from deer on my porch, wild berries + running naked in the rain to the city in its’ current chaos.
I’m still not back to offering sessions as “usual” and am working with the constant changes in restrictions and risks as far as negotiations and safety are concerned. BDSM has taught me lots about PPE, navigating chaos, negotiating risks and self care which has been very helpful in this. If we get to a point where things feel safer I’ll be reintegrating returning subs and play friends first to the best of my ability, prioritizing longer in-person scenes, and will slowly add folks who are new-to-me (local SP references an asset).
Address Me As CONTESSA, QUEEN OR GODDESS.
Some of the most popular reasons folks seek me out right now relate to the following:
As an experience collector myself I have many varieties of experience in my memory to draw from and connect. When a certain scene starts to materialize in my head I find myself shopping through complimentary experiences and sensations in my mind, considering the senses and states and energy of a scene and what to throw in when, I draw from books, music, art, the natural world, anywhere that inspires me.
I've run with a number of themes, obscure objects and fantasies over the years, some of the most memorable include: cats vs dogs, bunny + cow sluts, human turkey stuffing, cornholing, grapefruit fucking, omorashi + bondage, cannibal fantasy/ vore/ giantess, pie throwing, gnome hat insertions, paper bag pain sluts, rubber chickens, a tale of ten markers, golden coffee, butt-plugged hikes, pepper-riding or minty corporal, mime torturing, mustard mistress, odd insertions, tea ceremonies, flower sluts and other confusing and arousing situations.
Slut training can be humiliating, encouraging, fierce, rough, gentle, energizing or dehumanizing: fruit fucking, nipple play, strap-ons, pumps, vibes, urethral sounds, gags, object licking/ humping/ sucking. I've introduced a lot of folks to their first assgasms, fisting experiences and my foot in their ass.
I love when sluts train at home to stay "in shape" for bending and stretching between playtimes with me. I'm also a great team player in multi-Domme scenes: spit-roasting, wrestling holds to keep subs in place while being plowed, double fisting and more. Weekly online training scenes can go a long way to strengthen determined sluts.
I'm an experienced percussionist: crops, canes, spanking (hand/glove), paddles, whips, rhythmic percussion, florentine flogging, and being creative with my smacking objects (thuds, stings, burns, marks or no marks). I often take folks into intense pain states with multi-sensory layers to keep them at the edge. I like to throw in a little extra breath control when I can (gags, masks, dunking). I've have exciting skills from my time as a Session Wrestler: well known for my beatdown sessions (strikes, slaps, kicks, kneeing, trampling, rag dolling) and scissorholds (head, body, chest, forward, reverse) as well as breathplay/ HOM, smothers, figure 4s, camel clutch + boston crab, grape vines, stretches + pins + submission holds and victory posing (assorted punishments + cruelty).
Texting: I set myself up with a pay-as-you-text service for folks who aren't able to block off a set amount of time to play online. Dip in and out of consultations, fantasy chats, trade photos. You can find the link at the bottom of this page.
Online Sessions + Monthly "Contracts"
My full attention + creativity run wild here with live time meets online. Monthly contracts involve regular online meetings (weekly or more, set up in advance), great for short term structure and immersion with tasks, rewards and punishments, fantasies, and filthy homework.
Snail Mail: I appreciate those of you who near cleaned me out of older underthings for at-home appreciation during quarantine, down to scraps for those who value scent over style. Closer to the holidays I'll dip into my stocking collection and see what needs new homes. I've been really enjoying sending handwritten filthy letters (JOI, Instructionals, Tasks, Femdom Fantasies) to new "penpals", keep those coming!
Extended adventures are long periods of servitude, adventure, play and exploration that involve private sessions, interesting locations to visit or activities to channel post-scene energies, special places to relax or snack in the city that I consider to be special or on theme. I orchestrate this with folks that I have some play experience with, who have ridden through "some stuff" with me: communicative, present, attentive and practice following important instructions. In this way I'm able to lay out our mutual needs, boundaries, post-scene activity needs and put together a play kit, adventure map and backup plans to cover 4-12 or more hours 'in my control'.